Unaware and Unseen

Unaware and Unseen

Are You ready to become aware and to feel seen?

Everyone wants to feel seen. Not being seen is one of the most painful and debilitating human experiences we can endure. But not everyone wants to be aware. Unfortunately, we can’t have one without the other.

Unfortunately, we have existed, and continue to exist in a social landscape distorted by cultural norms that erode our well-earned intuition, distinctiveness, and self-worth. This is a kind of oppression of the spirit that dims our inner light and sucks the vitality out of us. Once that energy is gone we are susceptible to blending in, and ultimately becoming invisible.

Each of us lives in our own personal realities, but that reality is not always the only truth. The path forward involves breaking down the knowable reality to unveil the abundance and possibility that is waiting to be seen.

There is so much more to our lived experiences beyond what we consciously comprehend, and we can only discover these other realms of being if we make the choice to look beyond what we know. If we awaken to ourselves in a way that makes us matter, we transform into the unique and special humans we long to be.

Quick fixes and lazy attempts at personal growth do not change people. To be a decent human being we have to do the hard emotional labor of honest self-reflection and soul searching. We have to be fully accountable for our actions and see the blind spots in our daily lives.

Most people will never do this kind of personal work, and these people will never see you because they don’t even see themselves. But many people do take the risk of self-evaluation, and these are the people you are naturally drawn to and want to be around because they are aware, and you feel seen by them.

The best way to reignite your life force, and reclaim your greatest potential is by taking the time and space to do the deep exploration that invokes awakening and the honest change that brings you into the most natural version of who you are meant to be.

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